13:11:49 From Rachael Janna : oh neat, I have 7 & can relate to large fam :) age 4 to 20 13:12:50 From Taina : lol 13:13:47 From 219310 : We have 6. Oldest boy is 19 and the "baby" is beebopping in and out of the picture here. shes 9 and wants to sew in here with me. 13:14:28 From Miranda Smith : Yep- when my oldest was 9 she woke up one morning and was a different person. Didn't expect it that soon. So thankful I have your book and realized what was happening. 13:14:54 From 219310 : question: Extreme violent anger in the 15 yo boy and extreme heartbreak in an 11 yo. 13:15:13 From Rachael Janna : yep, agree 100%. my "sweet" kids changed overnight to testing, etc 13:15:33 From 219310 : normal I guess..or something. 13:15:59 From Stephanie : hahaha! 13:16:14 From Miranda Smith : YES! it is maddening 13:16:15 From 219310 : YUP!!! 13:16:18 From Liza to Ana Willis(Privately) : yep! can totally relate!!! 13:16:25 From lisa anderson : I'm so glad I am not alone! 13:16:27 From lisa anderson : LOL! 13:16:34 From Liza : yep! can totally relate!!! 13:16:54 From Ana Willis : Yep! We're experiencing all of it now. 13:17:14 From 219310 : Oh wow. 13:17:58 From 219310 : Ive done it. we just expect open and honest communication and tried our best to say yes more than no. 13:18:05 From 219310 : kind of thing. 13:20:14 From 219310 : disciple. teach and mentor. 13:21:45 From Rachael Janna : This reminds me of the stuff Im learning right through "Connected Families" (Discipline That Connects" by Jacksons) Right in line what we've been working on! Look forward to hear more on your book :) 13:22:13 From 219310 : All if this!! 13:22:16 From lisa anderson : Yes, please post book into. 13:22:19 From lisa anderson : info 13:23:18 From Hal & Melanie Young : www.nolongerlittle.com 13:23:36 From lisa anderson : thank you! I need everything you've got! 13:23:40 From Hal & Melanie Young : Or. www.RaisingRealMen.com/shop 13:23:56 From Hal & Melanie Young : For ALL our stuff! 13:24:00 From Rachael Janna : thank you! 13:26:55 From 219310 : emotionally unstable 11 year old. patience and some dicipling. Quantity time = quality time. 13:28:00 From Rachael Janna to Ana Willis(Privately) : sorry ana! connection keeps breaking on me 13:28:10 From Liza : yesss! current obsession CARS 13:28:24 From 219310 : Liza...mine tooooo!!!!1 13:28:41 From Ana Willis to Rachael Janna(Privately) : No worries. 13:29:23 From Katie LaPierre : I can't hear... 13:29:32 From 219310 : Hands on distracts from emotional turmoil. Yup. "Helping" them just says I care. I wint to be around you. 13:29:50 From Ana Willis to Katie LaPierre(Privately) : Check your settings. 13:31:49 From 219310 : I am at the "not trying anymore" with the 19 to. 13:33:07 From lisa anderson : Yes! This is where we are now. The kids are not in the same place spiritually as their parents. How do you reconcile it with their desires that don't match the parents ideals. 13:34:04 From 219310 : case for Christ movie is awesome. 13:35:04 From Liza to Ana Willis(Privately) : can you share the books they mentioned? only got down a couple 13:36:29 From Ana Willis to Liza(Privately) : Mere Christianity by C.S Lewis The Case for Christ by Lee Strobel More Than a Carpenter Engaging Today's Protigals 13:37:00 From Ana Willis : Books they mentioned: Mere Christianity by C.S Lewis The Case for Christ by Lee Strobel More Than a Carpenter Engaging Today's Protigals 13:37:19 From Rachael Janna to Ana Willis(Privately) : thx ana!! 13:37:28 From Liza : Thanks Ana! 13:37:29 From Miranda Smith : Thanks Ana! I wasn't able to write them fast enough 13:40:59 From Rachael Janna : wow, I can so relate! our days are often like that... amen 13:41:13 From Liza : ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ 13:41:20 From Miranda Smith : today has been a day like that... 13:41:33 From Liza : same here, Miranda 13:45:02 From Rachael Janna : yep! 5 boys here and so different than our girls 13:45:34 From Stephanie : I'm also thankful for having read No Longer Little before my younger son started changing. (Just wish I would have had it for when we went through it with our older son!) 13:53:10 From 219310 : Yeah. rebuilding. 13:53:50 From 219310 : 19 yo. closed. Hes pretty closed. its hard to get into his head! 13:54:04 From Nina Palmer : struggling. they are 7 and 8 but if I don’t do something now... we are on a bad trajectory 13:55:44 From Katie Rhodes : Any tips on giving your Son (mine is 16) respect and responsibility as a young man while still requiring him to respond to me, Mom/teacher, with respectful answers. 13:56:33 From 219310 : AMEN Melanie!!!!!! 13:58:51 From Rachael Janna : agree 100 ana 14:01:07 From lisa anderson : I like that phrasing... 14:04:58 From Miranda Smith : what kinds of consequences tend to be more effective in the tween/teen years? 14:05:16 From Ana Willis : Great question, Miranda! 14:06:02 From lisa anderson : So true!! 14:06:47 From 219310 : Im an wondering if they need to have a hand in the discipline. But that would take alotta time just being with them and hearing their hearts Miranda 14:07:22 From 219310 : Yes ANA! 14:07:56 From Liza to Ana Willis(Privately) : How do you handle when your teen is displaying attitude or disrespect and the younger sibling is copying behavior? 14:08:44 From 219310 : Natural!!! This is what I do!!! Yes Melanie!!! 14:08:53 From 219310 : It works sooo well!!! 14:09:45 From 219310 : self disciplined!! 14:10:27 From Miranda Smith : Glad to hear that answer- that's the direction I have already been moving in. Thank you! 14:11:20 From 219310 : Yes. Hal. absolutely! 14:13:28 From Katie Rhodes : Thank you! So much great info! 14:13:54 From Ana Willis : Book: The Heart of Anger 14:15:33 From 219310 : Luke Priolo 14:15:51 From 219310 : Is the author of The heart of Anger. 14:16:59 From Stephanie : It's Lou Priolo--I just added it to my Amazon wish list :) 14:17:20 From 219310 : Im getting it too! 14:17:36 From Misty Rector : It looks like there is a workbook for the anger book, would you recommend that as well? 14:19:15 From Hal & Melanie Young : Workbook - It is helpful to stop and reflect and apply it to your life 14:19:42 From Hal & Melanie Young : BTW, we carry The Heart of Anger and the Workbook at our site, too! 14:20:12 From 219310 : It looks like its a good study to just grab and use it in dealing with anger with your child together! 14:20:23 From 219310 : apologetics. yup! 14:22:28 From lisa anderson : So true. The home life has changed. I grew up this way, but so few kids are getting that family worship experience to train their faith. 14:22:32 From lisa anderson : Thank you for sharing that. 14:23:39 From Nina Palmer : yes. I was raised that way. we have done it but not consistently. 14:23:39 From 219310 : we have a missionary prayer wall. all freinds and family that we have met and interacted with and they send us precious prayer requests. 14:24:38 From Nina Palmer : Also, my husbands family was very strict on their worship. The relationship wasn’t there. so my husband has a bitter taste about family worship. 14:25:31 From lisa anderson : Me too. Strict family and my husbands family. We made it our own as parents and allow the kids to take part and make it fun. games, songs, role plays, drama! 14:25:43 From lisa anderson : Its so important, but don't throw the baby out with the bathwater! 14:31:16 From Nina Palmer : thanks 14:31:18 From Hal & Melanie Young : Leaving Legalism by Kendra Fletcher 14:31:36 From Hal & Melanie Young : Very balanced! 14:31:53 From A Baker : thank you! 14:32:03 From Misty Rector : Thank you so much! This was great information!!! 14:32:20 From Liza : Thank you, Hal & Melanie! This was a huge blessing! 14:32:28 From Miranda Smith : Thank you so much! This has been very helpful and encouraging 14:32:48 From lisa anderson : This was an awesome dialogue! Thank you Ana, Melanie and Hal! you at paving the way for tons of families. God bless and keep you in your ministry! 14:32:53 From 219310 : Thank you Hal and Melanie!!! 14:33:38 From lisa anderson : Amen! 14:33:41 From Stephanie : amen! 14:33:43 From Miranda Smith : Amen! 14:33:49 From lisa anderson : Will the recording be available? 14:34:47 From lisa anderson : God bless us all!!